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It All Begins With Trust:

A positive relationship with your child is the most important way to build trust.  It’s where a child’s ability to take on life’s challenges begins.

heart  Kids learn to trust through:

heart  Here’s how you can build trust with your child:

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  1. Your child is having a temper tantrum at the mall.  What is the best plan?

    a) Tell your child you are leaving them there, walk away to where they can’t see you and leave them to cry it out.
    b) Punish your child by taking away their favourite toy.
    c) Offer to get your child a treat if they stop crying.
    d) Say, “This is not the way to behave.” Gently pick them up and take them back to the car or a quiet place.

     The best answer is ‘D’. Let your child know what behaviour is okay before you go out. Tell your child what will happen if they misbehave and follow through with what you say. An immediate consequence is better understood.  For example, “Stop crying or we are going home,” rather than, “Stop or you won’t go to Jane’s party next week.”
     The best answer is ‘D’. Let your child know what behaviour is okay before you go out. Tell your child what will happen if they misbehave and follow through with what you say. An immediate consequence is better understood.  For example, “Stop crying or we are going home,” rather than, “Stop or you won’t go to Jane’s party next week.”
  2. You have an appointment and your child doesn’t want you to go. What is the best plan?

    a) Wait until she is distracted and sneak out.
    b) Tell her where you are going and what time you will be back. Give her a hug goodbye and leave.
    c) Try to comfort her crying. If she is afraid, take her with you.

     The best answer is ‘B’. Trust is built with honesty and going through the experience of having mom or dad leave and return as promised.  Give praise when you return. “I know it was hard for you to let Mommy go, but you did it and I’m very proud of you.”
     The best answer is ‘B’. Trust is built with honesty and going through the experience of having mom or dad leave and return as promised.  Give praise when you return. “I know it was hard for you to let Mommy go, but you did it and I’m very proud of you.”
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